We are not prepared, are we?

" hope is good news, we are all not expecting this, pa's result is coming back tomorrow, whatever it is, I hope is good news cos we are not prepared for it if is bad news."

That's what my bro text me a week ago. It saddens me, sending me depressing thoughts. Yes, you are right bro, we never expect, never even give it a single thought or are we all just plainly in denial?